Discussion Why impress a world that hates you?

[lunin7]

Someone said these very words and I found it to be true, but let’s be honest we don’t technically do things to impress people we do it to make ourselves feel better by attracting people to be interested in us

We want the dopamine feel of having people around us having family and kids, so this argument is easily debunked

 

[jayjay]

Someone said these very words and I found it to be true, but let’s be honest we don’t technically do things to impress people we do it to make ourselves feel better by attracting people to be interested in us

We want the dopamine feel of having people around us having family and kids, so this argument is easily debunked

My dear Lunin,

The thing is that although we consciously know about these things, what happens is that the "I don't give a fuck attitude" is not something you obtain by thought. It is something visceral, it is something that comes deep down from the abyss from your mind.

Trust me, it is possible. I have taken my mind to the utmost limit and I'll keep doing it, I have given myself away to every emotion. Destroying my identity at every step.

It is something visceral, it is something that will appear. Objectively, if someone took a look at my life and saw how it is right now, he would surely say that I'm in a very bad situation, but subjectively I feel tremendously well.

 

[jayjay]

The problem with autistic people is that they remain too much in their own heads.

 

[Autistic_tendencies2]

My dear Lunin,

The thing is that although we consciously know about these things, what happens is that the "I don't give a fuck attitude" is not something you obtain by thought. It is something visceral, it is something that comes deep down from the abyss from your mind.

Trust me, it is possible. I have taken my mind to the utmost limit and I'll keep doing it, I have given myself away to every emotion. Destroying my identity at every step.

It is something visceral, it is something that will appear. Objectively, if someone took a look at my life and saw how it is right now, he would surely say that I'm in a very bad situation, but subjectively I feel tremendously well.

Recommend some meditation books bro thank you

 

[jayjay]

Recommend some meditation books bro thank you

I have done the following things:

-Psychoanalyzing myself extensively. EVERYTHING, why do I do the things I do, why do I think the things I do, and so on... A good IA like Gemini Pro or DeepSeek will help you a lot. I do like a lot the Freudian or Jungian points of view. Jung's tends to be more spiritual and Freud's in my opinion is more physical.
-Feeling my emotions intensely using music to access altered states of consciousness. I jump between emotions too, I listen "violent" songs, and then listen some romantic music like bachata, then go for pop. I also DANCE, I allow my body to express itself. You just have to focus so much on the emotion that you get burned.

Here:

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