Discussion Why is it that society wants you to be so nice even though it has less benefits?

[lunin7]

People take kindness for weakness, which makes little sense to me because weren’t we all indoctrinated to be kind? I was assaulted or yelled at whenever I wasn’t “kind”

 

[Memento Mori]

People take kindness for weakness, which makes little sense to me because weren’t we all indoctrinated to be kind? I was assaulted or yelled at whenever I wasn’t “kind”

It is just virtue-signalling and oversocialisation, most people are not actually altruistic.