Women are submissive to men who treat them like this - Attract girls with Russian big sister

[MelaninWarlord]

In this video titled "Women are submissive to men who treat them like this," the host (speaking from the persona of a "Russian Big Sister") explores why women naturally soften and "submit" to certain types of men. She emphasizes that this dynamic is not about dominance or control, but about emotional safety and masculine leadership.

Key Takeaways on Why Women "Submit"
The Foundation of Safety: A woman becomes "soft" and trusting when she feels safe. This safety allows her to relax her nervous system and step out of a stressed, "masculine" mode [02:03].

True Dominance vs. Ego: Dominance is not about barking orders or being a jerk. It is about having a clear sense of direction and purpose so that a woman doesn't feel she has to carry the "emotional backpacks" for both people [02:40].

Emotional Consistency: One of the most powerful "spells" is showing up the same way every day—stable, kind, firm, and unbothered. This stability is what makes a woman want to follow a man's lead [04:37].

Kings, Not Queens: The host argues that men shouldn't treat women like "queens" (putting them on a pedestal) but should instead treat themselves like "kings." A woman observes how a man manages his own life, emotions, and boundaries before she decides to trust his leadership [03:16].

The Power of "No": A woman respects a man who can set boundaries and say "no" without trembling. If setting a boundary scares a woman away, the host advises that she is not the right partner [05:04].

Practical Advice for Men
Avoid the "Golden Retriever" Energy: Don't be overly eager or constantly waiting for a "treat" (validation) [01:24].

Be the Anchor: In times of mess or chaos, remain the backbone—steady and principled [01:46].

Stop Micromanaging: Leadership is not about being a tyrant or controlling her every move; it is about carrying yourself with a calm authority that she chooses to follow [05:18].