Basically saying don't tell them these 7 things.
1. Don't tell them new goals around money and work.
2. Don't tell your past trauma, especially shit they or another family member did.
3. Shit your partner did if you're still with them.
4. New ideas and philosophy, especially if they're not for it.
5. Any savings and rainy day funds
6. Your regrets
7. The family problems or that you know of these yourself.